By: Justin & Lindsey Holcomb
Publisher: New Growth Press (2015)
For: Parents | Families | Counselors
Summary: God Made All of Me starts from the fundamental truth that God created everything and applies that truth to kids and their bodies. It equips parents to talk with both boys and girls about their bodies and to help them understand the difference between the appropriate and inappropriate touch of others. God Made All of Me allows families to build a first line of defense against sexual abuse in the safety of their own homes.
By: Diane Langberg, Ph. D
Publisher: New Growth Press (2015)
For: Victims | Counselors | Churches
Summary: When someone suffers through trauma, can healing happen? And, if yes, how does it happen? Dr. Diane Langberg tackles these complex and difficult questions with the insights she has gained through more than forty years of counseling those whose lives have been destroyed by trauma and abuse. Her answer carefully explained in Suffering and the Heart of God is “Yes, what trauma destroys, Christ can and does restore.”
But it’s not a fast process, instead much patience is required from family, friends, and counselors as they wisely and respectfully help victims unpack their traumatic suffering through talking, tears, and time. And it’s not a process that can be separated from the work of God in both a counselor and counselee. Dr. Langberg calls all of those who wish to help sufferers to model Jesus’s sacrificial love and care in how they listen, love, and guide. The heart of God is revealed to sufferers as they grow to understand the cross of Christ and how their God came to this earth and experienced such severe suffering that he too is “well-acquainted with grief.” The cross of Christ is the lens that transforms and redeems traumatic suffering and its aftermath, not only for the sufferer, but it also transforms those who walk with the suffering. This book will be a great help to anyone who loves, listens to, and seeks to help someone impacted by trauma and abuse. There is no quick fix, but there is the hope for healing through the love of God in Christ
By: Basyle Tchividjian
Publisher: New Growth Press (2015)
For: Ministry Leaders | Counselors | Churches
Summary: How do we protect the children in our Christian community from sexual offenders? We are becoming more and more aware of the prevalence of child abuse, both in society at large and in the church. We want to protect children in our community from abuse, but we don’t always know the best ways to go about that.
From his years of experience as a child abuse prosecutor, Boz Tchividjian unpacks the dynamics of a church environment that allows perpetrators to thrive and offers constructive help for educating and training your church to recognize and deal with potential abuse. Using biblical principles and the example of Jesus, he shows you how to cultivate an attitude and environment in your church that provides safety and protection for these young ones.
Summary: Spiritual injuries are a significant consequence of child sexual abuse. Ongoing spiritual confusion and unanswered spiritual questions will undoubtedly contribute to the painful, and sometimes lifelong, damages caused by abuse. Therefore, it is critical that those who are on the frontlines of addressing and combating child sexual abuse be properly prepared to understand and respond to the spiritual consequences of this heinous crime. This PowerPoint presentation provides the necessary fundamentals needed for the Christian community to begin playing a significant role in confronting and addressing childhood sexual abuse and the spiritual damage left in its wake.
Summary: Paul writes in 1st Corinthians, "So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God." In other words, the very purpose for which God has breathed life into each one of us is to worship Him. As man’s chief end is to worship God, Satan’s chief objective is to rob God of that worship by and through the physical and spiritual destruction of His worshippers…mankind. and tThis dark agenda often begins with Satan’s attempt to destroy the most venerable of worshippers:, children.! This PowerPoint presentation lays out what is at the heart of child abuse: ....the robbery of worship.
By: Andrew J. Schmutzer
Publisher: Wipf & Stock (2011)
For: Survivors | Ministry Leaders | Counselors
Summary: Maybe the only thing new about sexual abuse is quality discussion from several professions (psychology, theology, and pastoral care). Here are the insights of over two dozen psychologists, theologians, and those in pastoral care, all targeting the issue of sexual abuse. Designed as a resource for Christian educators, therapists, pastors, social workers, group leaders, and survivors, The Long Journey Home Schmutzer combines current research in mental health with rich theological reflection, global concern with fervent pastoral wisdom for the local faith community to create a fresh resource of information for those who have survived abuse and those ministering to them. Whether you are a counselor, professor, pastor, or spouse of a survivor, you hold in your hand a fresh resource of information and advocacy for those suffering from the devastating effects of sexual abuse and rape. The breadth of material, biblical insight, discussion questions, and helpful resources gathered here just may be the tool of a generation.
By: Anna C. Salter
Publisher: Basic Books (2004)
Summary: What motivates sexual abusers? Why are so few caught? Drawing on the stories of abusers, Anna C. Salter shows that sexual predators use sophisticated deception techniques and rely on misconceptions surrounding them to evade discovery. Arguing that even the most knowledgeable among us can be fooled, Anna Salter dispels the myths about sexual predators using anecdotes and case histories and gives us the tools to protect our families and ourselves. A must read for all Christian parents, leaders, and church members!
By: Diane Langberg
Publisher: Tyndale (2012)
Summary: On the Threshold of Hope offers hope and healing to men and women who have been traumatized by sexual abuse. Dr. Langberg's insights and the quotations from many survivors assure readers that they are not alone and that Christ, the Redeemer, can heal their deep wounds.book offers hope and healing to men and women who have been traumatized by sexual abuse. Through stories, Scripture, questions, and encouragement, Dr. Langberg walks with survivors on the road to healing through Christ's love and power.
By: Justin Holcomb and Lindsey Holcomb
Publisher: Crossway (2011)
For: Survivors and Their Families | Ministry Leaders | Counselors
Summary: The statistics are jarring. One in four women and one in six men are or will be victims of sexual assault in their lifetime. But as sobering as the statistics are, they don’t begin to speak to the darkness and grief experienced by these victims. Because sexual assault causes physical, psychological, emotional, and spiritual pain, victims need clear help, hope, and healing. In Rid of My Disgrace, a couple experienced in counseling victims of sexual assault explains how the grace of God can heal the broken and restore the disgraced. Justin and Lindsey Holcomb—who’ve been working with abuse survivors for years —outline an approach here for moving from destruction to redemption. While avoiding platitudes and shallow theology, Rid of My Disgrace combines biblical and theological depth with up-to-date research. This book is primarily written for those who have been assaulted (either as children or adults) but also equips family, friends, pastors, and others to care for victims in ways that are compassionate, practical, and informed. Part of the Re:Lit series.
By: Justin S. Holcomb and Lindsey A. Holcomb with Stephanie R. Hurter
Publisher: New Growth Press ( April 2015)
This brand new Rid of My Disgrace Small Group Discussion Guide answers our collective questions, bringing healing and hope into the safety of the faith community. Designed to be used with Rid of My Disgrace, the small group discussion guide walks victims of sexual abuse along a biblical path of restoration, helping them to finally be rid of their disgrace.
Presentation by GRACE founder Boz Tchividjian regarding the prevalence and tactics of sexual abusers within the faith community
This presentation will provide basic information about how sexual abusers use the faith community to gain access to children.