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What to Say When Someone Discloses Abuse
A short, practical guide to help pastors and church leaders respond with care and avoid common mistakes.
When someone discloses abuse, the first words you say matter.
You need to know…
How to respond without saying the wrong thing.
What questions and statements to avoid.
How to explain what happens next without making promises you cannot keep.
In this guide, we’ll show you how to respond during one of the most difficult moments a church leader may face.
Get:
Practical recommendations rooted in Scripture.
Helpful opening responses that communicate care and take the disclosure seriously.
Questions and statements church leaders should avoid.
Language for explaining next steps, reporting responsibilities, and limits of confidentiality.
Ways to offer practical support without creating additional pressure.
Guidance for responding to team anxiety or defensiveness.
And more...
Respond with care when someone trusts you with their story.
A person who discloses abuse may feel frightened, uncertain, angry, sad, shocked, or unsure of what they need next. Your response can help them feel heard and supported, or it can deepen fear and silence.
Get the practical language for this critical moment and learn how to communicate in ways that protect vulnerable parties and preserve dignity & safety.
What to Say When Someone Discloses Abuse
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