Resources
Protecting Kids at VBS
Vacation Bible School is often the most high-energy, chaotic, and beautiful week in the life of a children's ministry. But in the thick of planning decorations, games, and snacks, ensuring the safety and protection of the children in your care must be the baseline of your preparation. Offenders look for environments where privacy is easily accessed and chaos masks boundary violations. Here are the top 7 things you need to prepare right now to make your VBS a sanctuary of safety and healing.
Boundaries, Policies, & Safety Recommendations For Youth Group / Student Trips
Unstructured time (such as travel, overnight trips, informal hangouts, lock-ins, etc.) create an increased risk for children and teens because they involve sleeping arrangements, showering and changing, or other vulnerable situations. In this article we will look at basic safety recommendations for student trips.
The Toxic Triangle: Understanding How Systems Enable Abuse
When people ask, “How did this happen?” they’re often searching for a single point of failure. Was it a destructive leader? A non-existent or weak policy? A failure of bystanders to speak up? The best way to approach answering this question is to think in systems, understanding how a set of parts might work together in an interconnected network.
False Narratives of Christian Leaders Caught in Abuse
Boz Tchividjian explains three narratives that are most common among offending leaders.
An Abuse Survivor's Message to the Church
A survivor of horrific child abuse and abduction while living in a Christian home, David Linwah shares what he has wanted the Church to hear for so long.
Should a Victim Pay for the Sex Offender’s Attorney?
A disturbingly common legal maneuver is utilized by attorneys across the United States which ends up discouraging victims from coming forward, David Clohessy explains.
Finding Hope Between Two Gods: Interview with Trudy Metzger
In this interview with memoirist Trudy Metzger, the truth is revealed about how the deep physical, emotional, and spiritual pains caused by childhood trauma cannot obscure a loving God who crosses the road and gets down into the dirt with the hurting and brutalized.
Remaining Silent About Suspected Abuse: 5 Common Fears
In the past 20 years, I have come across many situations where folks have found themselves conflicted about whether to say something after observing unsettling behavior between an adult and a child. Unfortunately, too many have decided it’s best to remain silent.
Shatter the Silence: A Call to the Black Church to Protect Our Children
Dr. Thema Bryant-Davis explains how the Black church can directly confront child abuse, beginning within its own community.
Survivors and the Sufferings of Jesus
Boz Tchividjian reflects on the similarities survivors of abuse have with Jesus and His sufferings.
A Church Silent in the Face of Evil is No Church At All
A silent church will always protect perpetrators over God’s little ones. A silent church will always abandon the very ones God holds precious. In fact, a silent church is no church at all. God was certainly not silent in the face of evil, neither should we.
Startling Statistics: Child Sexual Abuse and What the Church Can Do About Itch
Understanding the reality of abuse begins with seeing the scope of it. Transforming our faith communities into places where children are safe and abuse survivors are welcomed, valued, and loved begins by realizing every number is a person.
